I thought marriage would be easy... and it is, if you make it. After being married for just six months (I posted the first 20 things on my Tumblr in 2014) I quickly realized that there is no blueprint for marriage, meaning, no two look the same. So while I've learned a lot from my own marriage within the past 3 years, it's not to say that this is exactly what everyone learns, and even if they do, it's not at the same pace. You set the pace for your own marriage. Nonetheless,